Tip 20 – Focus on her back…
No, not her butt, her back…. You probably focus most of your attention on her front, that you neglect this greatly sensitive area! Stand behind her, kiss the nape of her neck, slowly moving down her spine…. Standing behind her also allows you to reach around and cup her breasts to manually stimulate her!
Tip 19 – show her who is boss
Simply slide her up against the wall, and spread her legs using your knee. Pressing your thigh up against her crutch, starts the feeling of general clitoral stimulation - the process of seduction is underway:)
Tip 18 - Always send the right message
By grabbing one of her butt cheeks with your hand, and using the other to cradle her face sends two important messages – one that you find her amazingly attractive that that you love watching her and the other tells her that you simply want to rip her clothes off and take her right then and there!
Tip 17 – Touch her ‘unknown’ hot spot
By placing both your thumbs on either side of her vajayjay and rubbing the area in small circles without actually inserting your fingers inside her, she will start to quiver! Add an extra element by adding Durex Play O clitoris stimulation gel…Remember this whole area is filled with nerve endings, so all touch, rubbing and stimulating her is a great warm up to the next treat – oral sex!
Tip 16 – Lube her up
Remember that everything is smoother when it is lubed up. Be liberal – and remember lubricant can definitely add to the experience. Try a Tingling lube, Flavored lube or warming lube! Take a dollop and rub it around the opening to her vagina.
Tip 15 – Allow a bit of pain with that pleasure
When aroused, women have different pain tolerance levels – once you understand hers - take advantage of this by giving her inner thighs a few love bites. If your game, you can wrestle with her nipples a little or even give her labia’s a quick nibble! A great starter before oral sex!
Tip 14 – Deprive her
Get a little kinky by blindfolding her – removing this sense will ensure that all her others will be heightened! By using a sexy satin blindfold, it softly covers their eyes, keeping your lover in a pleasurable state of darkness and anticipation that heightens their sexual desire
Tip 13 – Allow her to watch
Not only do you love visual stimulation – but so does she! Women get incredibly turned on by seeing themselves being turned on! Get a mirror placed next to the bed and ensure you assume positions that allow her to watch her own reflection the whole time - I recommend doggie style or girl-on-top!
Tip 12 – Treat her to double the fun
With one hand, use two fingers to stroke her clitoris in circles. And with the other, insert your pointer finger palm-up inside her. Find the spot about an inch or two inside her along the front wall that feels spongy or puckered, and use a come-hither motion. It may take some time to pull off this ambidextrous maneuvering, but knowing that you can give her that kind of pleasure will be worth the effort.
Tip 11 – let your big boy be her sex toy
During sex, pull out and use the tip of your penis to stimulate her clitoris. Guide her hand to your member and place it on your shaft so she can control how to use it on herself – you might feel like a sex object, but hey I know you won’t mind!
Soo, that is the first 10 tips in My 2 part series –
So hopefully your practicing the tips in your mind or on Someone:) from the first part of this 2 part series…. Below are more ideas to put on the finishing touches;
Tip 10 – Mix up Missionary
Usually during missionary position, she will be used to spreading her legs wide. If you gently tie her ankles together with some restraints and enter her guy-on-top, this little change in position will allow for better clitoral stimulation and a tighter fit (it will even make your member feel bigger:)
Tip 9 – Tease her
It takes men just a few seconds to get stiff, but for women to get aroused they need about 10 mins of good old fashioned foreplay. Set a timer and tell her that until it sounds, you are not going to touch any of her sensitive areas – use that time to kiss every other part of her body – when the timer sounds; she will be moaning for you to stroke the bull’s eye!
Tip 8 – Break out the whipped cream or chocolate
Get kinky by writing dirty words all over her body with cream or body paint and lick them off! Just be sure you use towel or plastic sheet as this can get a little messy!
Tip 7 – Use your ring finger
The firm touch of your thumb or pointer finger can sometimes be too much for her sensitive clitoris. So when you first start to rub her button, use your ring or even your pinky finger. Then once you feel her getting wet and lift her pelvis (that is the give-away move that she wants more), switch to your middle or pointer finger!
Tip 6 – Get hot and cold
Varying the temperature adds sensations. Suck on her nipples until they are hard, then blow on them to cool them suddenly. Or add a hot towel or ice cube into the mix.
Tip 5 – Break out a vibe
Mix it up a bit by adding a vibrating toy into your love making. Cock-Rings, or Mini-vibes
are a great starting choice. Often woman can’t orgasm with penis
penetration alone; they need the extra stimulation on their clitoris to
really get them going!Tip 4 – Keep going
Just because she has had one orgasm, doesn’t mean that she wants to stop there! Women are designed to have multiple orgasms, so give her the pleasure of having more than one! After she climaxes, spend a minute or two focusing on her non-nether regions like her back, butt and breasts, and then go back for seconds!
Tip 3 – Make it sweet
Buy a candy necklace or garter belt – slip it on her and then proceed to eat of every bead one by one….
Tip 2 – Add angles
Having sex on different angles affects the penetration angle and feelings. Use a pillow to slip under her pelvis while you’re on top for missionary, or if you are more adventurous add a sex stool, doggie style strap or an inflatable position master!
Tip 1 – Spoon her
Instead of rolling over and falling asleep after sex (tempting I know) pull her over for a hug so that her head is resting on your chest and one of her legs is draped over yours. It will make her feel like you just can’t get enough of her and she will keep coming back for more!
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