and get some of that pleasure for
yourself?
When beginning anal sex, your body cannot be at its most relaxed when your mind is not at ease. Enjoy an erotic shower with your partner beforehand and get squeaky clean everywhere. It also should go without saying that a pre-sex bowel movement is essential. When it's not possible to go on command, over-the-counter enemas are a popular and effective way to ensure your peace of mind. Now that you are clean, your body then needs to be aroused to the point where you can't wait for anal penetration to begin. Along with regular foreplay, it is best to also participate in anallingus. If you don't feel comfortable with the idea of your partner's tongue up your butt, you may need a rethink.
The sensation of a EROT!C
partner
tickling and teasing, licking, and blowing is a very sensible way to
prepare your whole body and mind for the bigger and better things to
come. Before attempting penetration you must first apply lubricant liberally
all over the strap-on or penis,or a finger gently inserting it right up into your anus. Doggy style is the most popular position for anal
sex. However, your muscles are far more relaxed in the missionary
position. As well as allowing for easier insertion, missionary position
is also beneficial for beginners due to its intimate nature. You can
continue to kiss, and talk to each other directly, guiding each other to
continue further or stop when you need a break. When you are ready, breathe out and "push out" as the top begins to push in.
You may feel a stretch or a pinch. Insertion is the hardest part of the
process, and it should never be forced. When you are ready, it will be
easier to build momentum once you get past a certain point,
usually a couple of inches past your opening.Many people falter with anal sex when presure hits the internal
sphincter. Because you can't control it, its normal reaction is to
contract and tighten when a finger or penis is poking at it from the
other end. However, it can only tighten for a certain length of time
before it tires and loosens on its own. With gentle persistence, usually
after about a minute, the muscle will stop contracting and relax.
At
this point, you should be able to continue with slow pain-free
insertion.Continue slowly, always talking to your partner. As your partner moves in further,
you may have the feeling that you need to go to the toilet. If you have
done everything to prepare beforehand, this is only a natural reflex.
Your body is used to pushing objects out the other way. Stop for a
moment until the urge passes. If you are finding anal sex painful it is important to stop and retrace
your steps.
Your body probably wasn't prepared as much as it could have
been. Practice and good preparation should lead not only to a pain-free
experience, but also to an enjoyable one. Thinking about how to have anal sex for the first time is a lot like considering sex as a virgin. It's a little scary and a little exciting. You're expecting a bit of pain, and you know it will be awkward, but still you trust all the information you have ever received, you know you will eventually enjoy it. So why should anal sex be any different?
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