How to start and keep a women squirting…
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using only one hand…some lube and an open minded frisky woman. Warning: If the Lady doesn’t trust you or you haven’t built enough comfort… she WILL NOT orgasm, let alone squirt. Learning women and what squirting orgasms are, “Yummy” the different types of orgasms women can have and most importantly how to make a woman squirt her love juice all over you and the bed.
Different types of orgasms a woman can have
Clitoral orgasm
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Vaginal orgasm
Comes from the inside of the vagina from either the G-spot or the deep spot. This is the kind of female orgasm that can infuse their entire body, making them feel numb and shiver with excitement uncontrollably.
It’s also possible to have multiple vaginal orgasms, so you can (if done right) make her cum more than once…twice three times or more during sex, which will give her an overwhelming sensation… like a constant wave of pleasure all over her body.Quick note: Did you know that only 20% of women have experienced a vaginal orgasm? That means over 80% of women haven’t experienced one and most likely don’t even know what the hell it is… madness!…and a staggering 29% of women have NEVER had an orgasm! good stuff, grab a coffee and take notes Gentlemen.
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To intensify the pleasure, use a water based lube when using finger based foreplay which is what you will be doing here to make her squirt. A great natural lubricant is grape seed oil, which is also awesome for massaging as well as G-spot stimulation with the fingers. Get your hands ready remember that the vagina is a very sensitive area for a woman, so you must look after your hands… cut your nails, moisturize and keep them clean so they are soft and smooth. I’d even recommend getting a manicure.. yes I know it’s not on many men's to do list, but it will make sure your hands are ready for her.
Locate the G-spot
The big “G” is a part of the urethral sponge and is located between 1 and 2 inches (2 knuckles) inside the vagina, along the front wall, which is the top if the lady is laying on her back basically. As a woman becomes a lot more aroused, you should feel the G-spot swell up and become more pronounced, this is a GOOD sign that she’s ready to be penetrated… but we want to save that for later as the aim here is to make her squirt. The first technique is called “stroking”, to do this, take your index finger or middle finger… place it inside the vagina and go up, so you are touching the front wall. Now with your finger inside and touching the G-spot, begin stroking backwards and forwards, with a “come here” motion as if you’re stroking it. stay gentle, yet firm. Start with shorter slower strokes when you first enter the vagina , begin to build up momentum and speed up after a few minutes. Once she’s really getting into it, try two fingers (your index and middle fingers) and use the same stroking motion. Never use 2 fingers right away, always begin with One. Right here… this is where the magic happens. Now that you’ve been stimulating the G-spot and stroking it for 10 to 15 minutes. You should feel it ballooning inside and she should be groaning with pleasure.
This is the point where you want to
take things into “overdrive”, for this you will need to be right beside her
(like on your knees if you’re on the bed” and use both your middle finger and
ring finger to penetrate the same spot. With your fingers inside, you
will need to rest the palm of your hand on the clitorous, almost cupping it. Once
you’re in position, begin slowly stroking, whilst speeding up and then start to
pull your hand up and down so you stimulate the clit at the same time. Speed up a little more keeping fingers firm inside slowly…speeding up even more…now some more…encouraging her not to hold back, explain to her that the feeling of peeing is the orgasm trying to give way, she's not going to pee:) and finally stroking as fast(not rough) as you can until she climaxes (squirts) all over
the bed.
Now not all women will squirt, but a
lot will. I’ve only had one girl who couldn’t squirt and I did everything
correctly. You should feel the vaginal wall tighten and put pressure on your
fingers, this means you’ve done the job well.
Boom! You’re all done!
Things to remember
- Get some high quality lube – Water based lube is the best as it can be used with condoms also. You can still make a woman orgasm without lube, but it’s not recommended.
- Buy spare sheets – If she’s a “gusher” then you’re going to be going through a lot of sheets:)
- Spruce up your place – Make sure your apartment is presentable, clean and comfortable. If she’s not comfortable, then you’ll have a hard time making her squirt.
- Take your time – It’s not a race, most ladies will take around 20 to 30 minutes before you can make them squirt. However if you see the lady more than once and she’s very comfortable sexually around you, it will be seconds to a few minutes.
Squirting orgasms are seriously easy when you get the first one down, because you’re way more confident the next time.
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