So we spoke to a bunch of friends and performed fun experiments on our vacation to find out what tops our partners bedroom wish lists.
While partners might brag to their friends about the kick-ass
sex they're having, they rarely get into specifics. And when it comes to
actually divulging their secret desires to the partner in their lives ... well,
they're even more tight-lipped.
But they will tell Khole & friends the Happy Hedonist largely in part because they know we'll pass on the information to you. So we spoke to a bunch of friends and performed fun experiments on vacation to find out what tops our partners bedroom wish lists. Though every person has different needs, "there are some universal sex moves and attitudes that most people want but don't know how to request it," read on to learn about your partners carnal longings and how to satisfy them.
1. PARTNERS WANT A PARTNERS WHO CAN TURN THERE-SELF ON
Partners, as you know, need time to get revved up. Although your partner may be more than willing to pull out all the stops to get you hot, they wouldn't mind if you gave yourself a running start. "A number of partners still believe that it's solely the partners’ job to arouse them," said a lot of partners.
"To have a really fulfilling sexual experience though,
you have to put some effort into getting yourself into a sexual state of
mind." To give your libido a boost, draw on the same sources of
inspiration you use during solo self-pleasuring missions. Once your seduction
scheme begins, close your eyes and fantasize about a hot encounter you had with
your partner ... or even some other partner. "It's totally OK to think
about another sexual partner when you're trying to turn yourself on,".
"You just might not want to tell your partner about it."
2. YOU WANTS SEX TO BE FUN

100 per cent of friends agree. A friend 39 yrs old told of "one night he tried a new move that wasn't executed properly, and his girl hit her head on the nightstand! She didn't hurt herself, so they could joke about it, and then they got back to what they were doing."
Frisky fun is about more than damage control though. Make a silly bet to be paid off in sexual favors or play a board game naked in bed and agree that the loser has to grant the winner one lusty request.
3. PARTNERS WANTS YOU TO DROP HINTS
When it comes to pleasing the partner in your live, every partner wishes they had ESP (extra sexual perception). But the truth is, your libidinous longings can be baffling. "That's why a partner loves it when you're able to guide them without barking out orders,".
4. THEY WANTS TO WATCH
For partners, what they see is almost as good as what they get, so make sure to give them an eyeful. "One time during sex, my girlfriend led me over to a mirror so we could see ourselves in action," remembers a Friend, 41 yrs old. "I found it really sexy, but what made it hotter was how into it they were."Another way to turn your partner on with sight: Keep some clothes on.Sometimes your partner prefers when you leave a little to the imagination. "Sexy lingerie can be as arousing or more so as being nude, because it builds anticipation. More great views: if you're feeling brave, touching yourself in front of your partner
5. THEY WANTS YOU TO BE NAUGHTY
Even if you're a bad girl/boy at heart, you might hold back with your partner. "Partners are often afraid to get naughty in a relationship, because they don't want to shatter any 'good partner' image the other partner may have or they don't want you to think they're weird." "But partners want to see that no-holds-barred side of you, they just don't want to offend you by asking for it."
What dirty-girl/boy tricks fit the bill? Pretty much anything that shows them how much you like sex and how much you want it with them. To let them know you're into them, grab their butt hard when their climaxing or gently nip their shoulder.
6. THEY WANT A "WOW, WHAT WAS THAT?" EXPERIENCE
To separate yourself from the pack, you'll need to pull a move so wild, they won't be able to stop thinking about it the next day. "If you've mastered one particular technique that's really hot and different, the entire erotic experience will stand out in your partners mind.Now, you don't have to bust out a complicated trick best used by yoga instructors, just tweak an old standby, say switching between oral sex and intercourse with them blindfolded .You may also want to come up with your own signature mouth move explore create.
7. THEY WANT TO MIX THINGS UP

During foreplay, move your hand between and glide around there fun parts (with lube!), moving your hands up and down with long, smooth strokes.
Then add your other hand, and gently start touching everything arms back neck lips nipples hair along with lots of nips bits and licks. When you get to intercourse, start off slowly in missionary getting it slow and wet.
8. THEY WANT NOOKY OUT OF NOWHERE
"You'll win big sexual points with your partner if you spring sex on them out of the blue, "It gives them a huge ego boost by reinforcing the fact that you're really hot for them."For a spontaneous seduction, ask your partner to pull over to a deserted spot for a roadside romp when you're driving home one night. Or at a party, take them into a back bedroom or closet.
One friend, 63 yrs old remembers a naughty surprise attack at a black-tie affair.

9. THEY WANT TO TAKE YOU

Initiate some take-me-I'm-yours action. Partners love to be raw and animalistic with you, but they needs to know you want it too. "Kiss them seductively and then pull away, saying that if they want more, they can come and get it." During the act, you can also tell them
"harder" or "faster" if you feel like their handling you with kid gloves.
A friend, 54 yrs old was totally psyched when a woman asked to be ravaged. "An ex-girlfriend lay down on the bed and begged me to rip off her clothes, which I did. The sex was great, but letting me tear her shirt in half was the best part because it was passionate and intense."
10. THEY WANT TO DO NOTHING SOMETIMES
On the flip side, occasionally your partner prefers it when you take over. Yes lying back while a mate has their way with you is an ultimate human fantasy.A friend 26 yrs.’ old, recalls a time when:” she was dating a woman who was sort of a bookworm. But when she got her into bed for the first time, she was wild. Before I could even try to take off her clothes, she threw me back on the bed and blindfolded me with her bra, "Then she gave me the best oral sex ever. I didn't have to lift a finger."
This has been a wonderful and well need vacation!!!!!!!!!! thanks to all who gave their stories so garishly and there hospitality:)
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