find spanking to be a strong sexual turn-on.
For
a woman, the turn-on is not so much in the sensation of pain as it is
in the feeling of helpless submission and vulnerability of being bent
over her partner’s lap, the attention being paid to her behind (a
primary erogenous zone), the feeling of a man’s hand warming her
buttocks, and the anticipation of sexual pleasures to come. For a man,
the arousing aspect of spanking is the feeling of control and power over
his helpless lover, and the excitement of playing with her beautiful
bottom, turning it pink and putting her in the mood for some hot,
passionate sex. Both the spanker and the spankee need to want the
experience. Talking about spanking should be a part of sex play
usually works best when it happens before your sex session.
That’s not
to say that there’s no room for spontaneity, but rather, you’re more
likely to be able to ask for what you want and hear your partner’s
requests when you’re not turned on. The clearer you are about what you
want or what you might like to explore, the more likely it is that
you’ll get it. While giving a spanking, it’s very important that the
spanker can take feedback without getting his feelings hurt, and that
the spankee
feels comfortable giving feedback. If you’ve never spanked a
woman before, it’s hard to know how hard is too hard or not hard enough
for her without asking. Specific questions can serve the dual purpose
of being sexy and helpful. Try asking questions such as “Does this feel
good?” “Harder?” “Faster?” “Softer?” or “Slower?” How to Spank Erotic
spankings are best accomplished by bare hands on bare bottoms. By
spanking only with bare hands, you are able to exercise complete control
and modify the procress as that bottom blushes and reddens.
However, if
used with great care, small paddles, the back of a hair brush, wooden
spoons, etc can also be used. For the most intense sexual stimulation,
try the old-fashioned over-the-knee (OTK) spanking position. For women,
the over-the-knee position practically guarantees clitoral stimulation
with every spank! The spankee should be over the spanker’s right knee,
assuming he is right-handed. The best way to begin is to start with
hand spanking over clothes, massaging her bottom after every few smacks.
Gradually remove the clothes by lifting her dress or lowering her
pants, and then pulling down her panties as her bottom gets warmer. When
we get spanked, more blood flows to the skin, the muscles relax, and
arousal builds. The more relaxed we are, the better spanking will feel.
Focus your spanking on the buttocks. Always avoid impact on or above
the tailbone, outside of the buttocks, lower thighs, the back of the
knees, and where the bottom ends and the thighs begin. It’s easy to
damage the tailbone or kidneys if your spanking gets out of the safe
zone. Most people find that it feels best on their butt, anyway. You
may want to include other stimulation such as genital play or light
scratching and tickling to heighten sensation. When your partner is
warmed up, her skin will probably feel warmer and (depending on her skin
tone) may be a bit pink. She may also relax into the sensation or make
appreciative sounds. However your partner expresses her pleasure, make
sure to linger there before taking it further. You’ll be rewarded
later! Taking It to a Climax There are ways to intensify any spanking
without applying more force. Remember that it’s the QUANTITY of spanks
that does the trick. A relaxed hand with fingers closed creates a much
more pleasant sensation than keeping the hand stiff and rigid. By
completely relaxing your wrist (making your hand work like a paddle) you
will increase the spanking effect dramatically. Things will get even
more intense if you spread your fingers! This reduces the air resistance
and leads to individual contact between your fingers and her bottom,
both widening the area touched and causing a wonderfully special
stinging effect. Alternating hand and finger techniques will bring about
a spanking to be remembered. Remember that women like changes when
we’re warmed up and turned on, so feel free to mix it up a bit.Vary the
speed. Going from slow, even strokes to short bursts of rapid-fire and
unpredictable strokes can keep things from getting boring. Also, vary
your intensity. Give her backside a few soft slaps and then surprise it
with some hard stingers. You will love her reaction! Depending on the
spankee’s tolerance and the spanker’s finesse, spanks can increase in
both intensity and speed, until both partners are pleased and pleasured
completely. A really good spanker can sometimes bring his partner to
climax from a sensuous, over-the-knee spanking.
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But every lover who
knows his partner’s signs of arousal can judge when the time is right to
shift her from the spanking position to a sexual position and implement
his penis, which should be hard and ready from her squirming over it
during the spanking! Spanking is sexy fun and a huge turn-on for many
couples. No matter what you find arousing about it, erotic spanking
between sexual partners can be a thrilling experience. If you do both
decide it’s something you would like to discover together, then take
your time and have fun. You will find this can be a very exciting way to
connect with each other. You’re reading this because you want to make
your sex life exciting. You want to make it hot. Passionate.
Mind-blowing. You probably want to find ways to please your partner.
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